To Derek

I miss

The early morning kitchen cups of tea

Catching up on the news and gossip

I miss

Those conversations across the desk tops

Pretty much doing the same

I miss

Being summoned from afar

And taking my reading glasses – just in case

I miss

Being texted or called in boring meetings

Just to embarrass me and make me laugh

I miss

Those cheeky glances across a room

That tell me you’ve had enough

I miss

Teaching in class with you

And the way we run it like a double act

I miss

You jumping out at me

Or throwing things at me

I miss

The way you know just when to give me a hug

And ‘lend’ me my one tissue

I miss

My line manager

(zoom just isn’t the same)

But more than that

I miss my friend.

 

2020

A tea cup sits on a kitchen table

This was written as we moved into yet another lockdown and had to do a full academic year of teacher training online – no face-to-face classes at all. It was horrible and difficult, and we learnt a lot, including how much you miss the human contact that you get when you don’t work from home.

 

PUBLISHED online for an AHRC funded project run by the University of Plymouth and Nottingham Trent University